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Do you think a married Bi Man should be able to fool around with men? Now suppose a married Bi-sexual Man wants his manly side of sex, do you think a wife should respect that? Should the man control himself? Do you think thats fair? 100% Curious, I am not in this situation nor am i married, just for fun.

if two bi men are married is it bi marriage or gay marriage? Both men are bisexual and they get married, is it called bi or gay marriage?

Are there bi married men and women? how do you live your sexuality? I know some bi men and women are married with the opposite sex.. I dont know why.. but how do you live with your desires with your gender? do you tell your husband or wife that you are bi and you need something with a person of you own gender? are you still confused? or you are totally sure you are bi? how do you like your persons from your own gender? in the case of women.. women very feminine or more or less or buth.. and for guys.. you like guys who are masculine, more or less or too effeminate? are you top or bottom? thanks for answering.. I am gay but I like bi guys

are there bi married men and women? how do you live your sexuality? I know some bi men and women are married with the opposite sex.. I dont know why.. but how do you live with your desires with your gender? do you tell your husband or wife that you are bi and you need something with a person of you own gender? are you still confused? or you are totally sure you are bi? how do you like your persons from your own gender? in the case of women.. women very feminine or more or less or buth.. and for guys.. you like guys who are masculine, more or less or too effeminate? are you top or bottom? thanks for answering.. I am gay but I like bi guys I never said at the same time. but sometimes you can be with a someone for a long time.. and you suddenly you want to be with someone of you own gender.. I know bi people are not the same time with the same gender..

Do any of you straight married men have occasional bi fantasies like I do? On the street, I check out women, I love beautiful women. I do not check out men on the street. I am very manly. However, whenever I see a nice big penis, I fantasize sucking it. I fantasize feeling it in my mouth. I am very confused about this because at 44 years old, I find the fantasies increasing. Can any of you relate? I am not sure if this is normal for heteros or some kind of bi curiousness. Thanks for your replies.

where can i go to contact bi married men in the 33401 area code vicinity?

How come so many married men want to explore being bi or curious? Meaning, how come men go on sites like craiglist wanting to hook up for nsa gay, bi or curious sex? Just wondering. Are they simply not getting any from their wives or what??

Where can i meet married bi men? i just turned 18

Why are so many married men bi,are women really foolish enough to think this is not the happening? when i am out i always catch married men checkin me out ,,at the gym, in the park when i have my shirt off. why are they always checking me out ? this really happens ,,my friends can tell you it does

Are there any other married bi men in South Carolina?

Are any of you married men bi curious like I am? Now that I am middle aged, I am finding myself being curious about M on M.....kind of brokeback mountain. Maybe it is just exploration wanting to try something different. I am still attracted to women. I am not going gay, just wanting to try something that i have fantasized about. Any of you like me? That's too bad Captain S because you are a hot looking black man ;-)

Where is the best place for a bi married man meet another bi married man?

Married gay/bi men???????????????????????? I really need to understand the mind of a man that is married but secretly meets up with men for "relations". I would appreciate any explanation for this. Thanks

Why the Bi DOUBLE STANDARD? Why ok for two married women to be bi but not 2 married men? Also, I used to date a girl that wanted to watch me with another man and actually promoted it. I have never met any woman that ever admitted that before. So is it a turn on for some of you wives to see two men together?

Married Man but Bi and wants to enjoy both the sexes? Just wanted to ask if married men around here, is being bi a crime....

Does anyone else think that there are alot of married men that are bi? I'm bi and I sometimes meet men from the internet. I know that sounds bad,but this isn't about me. I met a guy a while back and he said he needed to be very "discreet" about everything. We met up and he told me that he's been married for 10 years,has 3 kids,and a great job. He showed me a picture of his wife and she was beautiful! I asked if there was something missing or the sex wasn't good and he said that his wife still satisfies him sexually but it's something about a man that attracts him. Why would he risk all of that? Especially with another guy. Some wives can forgive for committing adultry with a woman,but a man is a huge no-no. Another guy I almost met was apparantly hard up for money. He said he was 100% straight,but needed cash and wanted me to pay him to come over. I declined. PS I didnt do anything with the married man. After I found out he was married, I told him I couldnt go through with it and he understood,so we just had coffee and talked.

70% of married men have bi fantasies, so what do you think is in your hubby's head? So some of your husbands are having bi fantasies, just track his internet habits and then you will know if your hubby falls into that 70 percentile. Pandora, you do not panic when you read controversial topics. Kudos to you. Notice how every wife and husband in here freaked, "not me", "not my hubby"...LOL. Instead they should have just relaxed and stated it like it is. Right? You wives do not know about your hubby's bi fantasies so there is no way you can say NOT MY HUBBY with 100% certainty.

Any of you married men have bi fantasies like I do? ? I am very masculine but I get these urges to have oral sex with other men. I get turned on by large penises. But I love women and only look at women on the street. I do not look at men but have these bi curious fantasies. Am I alone or has this crossed any of your minds also? To the wives, would you stay with me if I were your hubby and you found out what was in my head? That is, if i scored an A+ with you in all other aspects of our marriage? You women are hypocrites. How come it is ok for the wife to explore her bi side but not hubby?

How do so-called straight or bi men justify being married, but still indulging in their same sex pursuits? No judgement here...just curiosity regarding a very real issue.

bi men in new jersey? any bi married men in new jersey, where do we meet im not going to any outhouses, if you know what i mean, in 732 area code.

I have been dating a bi-married man now in trouble? I started dating a bi-married man who is much older than me and lives half the world away from me. We met when he was visiting Australia with business and we both fell for each other. Now after 9 months of talking and emailing everyday I feel the need for some committment which he hesitating to give. He does not want to come out to his wife as he is scared of being hated by everyone. At the same time he has been laching on to me as i am his only gay connection. I find myself drained and exhausted. What should I do? Love some help. Thanks.

gay men only, ok? i have been married to two bi men who " went gay" after the divorce.? they said it wasn't me,but I had heard through the grapevine,it was. I had heard it from good friends that it was because i was free-spirited,,( i'm not gay/bi,ect. I am very straight) that is why I attracted them. they went on to say,i am very domineering,b**chy,and manipulative,not to mention that I was a control freak. This made me mad,as that out of the two,one was a very masuline biker,who bashed gay ppl every chance he got. I was really surprised to know he went gay. I heard it from my friends,it was because of me. My other hubby was bi,and it was no surprise he went gay,but it hurt me to hear, I " drove him that way." Do gay men "go" bi? I don't want to sound ignorant,ok? I don't know much about the gay community,so i am asking because of curiousity. I have also had many bi ( male) lovers and they tell me I am a real woman. I was raised by my mom (she was bi) and she was a feminist. I guess i learned it from her. to know I " made a man go gay" makes me feel crappy.

Ill tell a bi-married man i'm having real good feelings for him... what do u recomend me to say? I know this is not good because he has nothing to offer me, he's taken, but he wants something with me, i also do but not just sex, FYI: we hadnt have sex yet. i have good feeling for him, and i am going to tell him this friday at the lunch how i feel. Any suggestions besides mines, cause i know what to say but a little help is good from you, guys.

If a married man like myself has bi fantasies but never did it and never will, considered bi or straight? I think this is a question that many married men want answered because I have read where at least 60% or married men have bi fantasies without acting out. Do you know what your hubby is thinking? No you do not. Yes but I am a manly man and never did it so how can I be called gay? My wife uses a rubber dong on my butt....this does not count.

Straight married manly man that has bi fantasies later in life. What is going on and should I try ? Should I try s e x with a man to see what all of these fantasies are about. Don't get me wrong, I love women. On the street, I check out hot women. I never check out men. However, I have these bi fantasies. Is this normal for many straight men?

how do i start my new life as a bi married man ???

As a married bi white man, where is the best place for me to meet a bi black man? Sorry, hungblackmen are who I like. However, I am having a hard time finding one. Help

How can Meredith Baxter be a lesbian if she had sex with,married and kids with men?don't that mean she's bi? Just asking how can she be a lesbian if she did all that? I'm confused about this subject and her statement.

married men....................? Does anyone know of a place where married gay or bi men from southern Indiana meet ? Web or otherwise.

How common is it for straight men to have bi fantasies and I wonder how many would admit it? My husband is one of those that do. I have no problem with it because we talked it out and he has no desire to do it. It's just a fantasy. I just wonder how many married men would admit this?

How many (%) married men do you think are on the down low? I am a DL black man and am surprised at how many white and black married men I have encountered that are bi like I am.

What is the best way for single, bi, mature men to meet single bi or gay men for dating? Too many gay and bi men are married and fooling around. So how do mature single bi men who have only recently acknowledged their gay side, have little experience with gays, and no connections meet legitimate dates? Can they do this without having to practically announce their new-found sexual interest? Can they end up actually loving a man if they are more straight than gay? How do they deal with old friends and family who think this is some craziness or sin? How do they deal with the over-heated gay or bi guys who want to START with sex before they even know (if they care) their partner's first and last name? Gay's sure are a funny bunch and hard to figure out. Are they really "gay" (that is "happy")? I've tried the ads on the Internet and find that, yes, there is lots of casual sex available, especially from married men who are unable to host and scared to death that their wife will learn about her husband's sexuality. I find the guys in both catagories are only good for very ocassional sex.

Is a married man who receives oral sex from another man bi-sexual? ? I've heard a married man say that he'd received oral sex from a man to completion, however, he isn't gay or bi-sexual because he's never kissed a man -- he has boundaries. He claims he's straight. I think he sounds like he got kicked in the head by a horse. What's your opinion? And, for the record, I am not making any judgments ABOUT his sexuality, only about his VIEW of it. Got it?

Do women ever knowlingly marry bi/gay men? Im a guy who happends to be attracted to men. However, Its always been my dream to get married, have blood related children and the white picket fence. I really want to form a loving, stable and life long relationship with a woman who is also the mother of our children. At the same time, I dont want to lie to her about my sexual preferences. When I think about the possibility that i may never have this, I get really depressed. My question is, do either lesbian, bi or even straight women ever enter relationships like this?

are there gay or bi christians men and women here in this section are afraid of other christians? also married? well I would like to know your experience? if you had troubles with christians from your church or you are in the closet as many people say.. I know many bi people are married and stuff like that but they still with the desire.. just a few days I have seen a video of a church that made an exorcism of a gay spirit according to them.. how can they know that being gay or bi is a bad spirit? that's not in the Bible.. all is vague about the topic

What percentage of married men do you think might be gay? or at least bi because recently a few of my friends' husbands (some of over 10 years, and they are fathers too) have come out as being gay.. it just got me thinking. there must be quite a few men who are married to cover it up. you guys might have a better idea than me.. i think maybe 5%

married bisexual dating a bi who won't give up men? ? I am married to a wonderful man as I am a soft butch (bi lesbian) who wants to date a bi women who wants to be in a relationship with me, but refuses to give up men... The question is about hypocrisy.. Once she told me she would only be with me and then she retracted her statement, only to the next night say that she really meant it when she said she only wants 2 b with me... My issue is that I rly only want her 2 b with me, but I understand if she feels the need 2 b with a guy, but admittedly I would break up with her. She feels that I should not ask her to give up men, that she would feel caged and due to the fact that I am married (but he knows that I am rly into women), So my answer to that is we don't date at all then... but she is uncontent with that response, so plz any advise would help thanks. bi lesbian is a term used by society to understand women who are married, but don't rly have sex with their husbands... I live with him and emotional bond with him, but we rly don't have sex, and when we do it is not about my need to have an organism, it is to plz him. But that is a rareity. @ banner : I just want to put in end to disease within my triangle.. Key word u used was protection... how do we rly know any of these ppl are safe... we don't and by minimumzing the amount of ppl in it slows that down.... She is not monoagoumous with any guy.. and only wants me as a women. @grrr: true that I am not faithful in a religous sense to my husband.. but what is faithful... to me cheating unfaithfulness is going against the rules.. so I am not cheating on my husband he fully knows, accepts, and agrees with the situation.. And furthermore he is not sleeping with my gf nor does he get to watch.. It is a unique situation and is not for everyone I know... I guess the big question here is Should we date, knowing I am not o.k. with her sleeping with any guy.. We know that I bond emotionally with my husband (and never have anyother man.. I am a lesbian, but I love him like no other and married him.) @for real I totally agree with u, why is it so complicated... it should be simple and defined as such.. and yet here we are complicated in all. I think that if it was meant to be then it would just b and no complications would be of it.

can i fall with a bi-married man? i think i am. but i know is playing with fire. what would u guys do??

If a married man fanta sizes about huge k0 cks, is he just bi curious? I wonder how many other married men are like me and there wives could never tell because we are manly and do not give her any clues? Do you think your husband might have the same thoughts about giving hea d to another man?

I am a married man, but I have sexual feelings towards other men and may be bi-sexual.? I would like to try and hook up with another man, but don't know how to try. Any ideas?

married bi man growing more insecure? I let my wife have sex with a lesbian without me present. Now, I am really miserable that she is happy. She liked it and said she'd probably want to do it again. What the heck am I gonna do with this discomfort? Am I not cut out for this lifestyle? Do I have to address my homophobia towards her? Time for therapy? if you care u can read about my feelings before. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=At351Kmd_POMYtwdCg_.QcLsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090504212547AAubiUg http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Al95ycJSorvUZKQb9ZeVwMfsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090508130616AA83xPq

married man, but bi? im happily married man, love my wife in the last few years i dicovered that im attracted to men. my wife knows about my fantasy to have sex with another men and she good with this. i dont wanna just slip with a random guy, im affraid is there site that i can find a man like my self married in my area to chat and see where its gonna take us. thanks

Do you all agree with me that married men can have sex with men without being gay? I am very masculine and married. However, I do have an appetite for big cox and I want to try receiving in the rear to see what it's like. I also love s**ex with women the most. I also do only manly things....nothing girly. I am also only into masculine men when I do want to play M on M on occasion. I do not care for femme or 100% gay men. So, many would say that just because I sucked a big D that means I am gay. I disagree. I think that gay is a lifestyle and more definitive sexually. Whereas for me, I think that I am just a occasional bi man with an occasional sexual appetite for a big D. I almost don't even label myself as bi. I am just a very sexual man that likes to explore all kinds of s**ex and even with a man on occasion. Do you agree? Do you know if there are a lot of men like me?

I'm bi and married to a man, but I want to be with a woman...how can I tell my husband? He's known I'm bi since we first met, but we both agreed that when we were married we'd practice monogamy. This was great for about a year, but now I really want to play with another woman again. I'm kinda worried about telling him this, because I don't want to hurt his feelings or ruin our marriage, what can I do?

I am a bi curious married man. My question for the married women is do you think your hubby has bi tendencies? The reason I ask is I am thinking that my wife has no clue. Maybe she does but I doubt it. So, do you women pick up on this even when hubby is not showing any signs? Also, how would you handle if your husband told you he was bi curious but would never leave you and that he loves you deeply? Why do men accept their wives having occasional bi sex but the wives do not accept their men having occasional bi sex. Do you think this is fair?

Am I the only Bi-Curious Married man to tell his wife? I am bi-curious and I told my wife... It took her quite a while to come around to the idea, and nothing has come of it..... I am a "if it feels good, why not do it" kind of guy.... why aren't there more people like me?? Are there more people like me?? What do I do now??

who else out there is married to a bi-sexual man who is into electromagnetic sex or knows of someone who is? i need some direction/ support in this area I am feeling like i'm the only one in the world who is experiencing this!

Why are married men increasingly playing with men (sexually)? Do you think everyone is bisexual to some degree? As per Kinsey , there are very few who are 100% homosexual or 100% heterosexual. Majority of us fall under Bisexual with attractions toward both sexes. Has society accepted bi-sexuality. It seems like it is cool to be bi now.

Where can i meet gay or bi men in essex uk? I am married but am bi is there any where i can have fun near braintree essex

Is is normal for a 38yr old married man with kids, to kiss other men on the cheak just bcause they are drunk ? How many men have ever kissed another man in public on the cheek in public, either while playing around or drunk? This man gets irrate if he is called a "faggott". He also told me that he caught his too younger brothers together sexually? Do you think he is bi-sexual too?

I'm a bi-married male, would like to find new friends in a similar situation.? Where can I find bi men in the similar situation such as a club or online pen-pal sites for friendship? Yes wife knows, had known for 14 yrs. has known for 14 yrs and happily married still...

I married a man 22 years my senior. I am bi-sexual. I have sex with women but no other men. Is this wrong? I love my husband and sex with him is great He knows about it and told me it's fine with him as long as all my other sex partners are ONLY women. He says because of the age difference he realizes he might not be able to satisfy me completely and does not feel threatened by my lesbian affairs and even hopes it makes me happy. He just does not want a competitor ie another man and I have no desire for any man but him Are there any other women out there in a similar situation? I love this way of living. He does not participate or even ask to watch. We have been married 8 wonderful years with no problems at all. Am I just lucky or am I wrong in doing this? PS: I had 3 other male lovers in my past who were my age and the only pleasure with them was the sex. They all lacked the loving I really wanted from a man. Edit To answer some of you below I am asking this because of one of my female lovers (I have three) questioned me about this tonight. Sorry if you do not agree with my lifestyle.

What Percentage of Men are Bisexual? I am a married bisexual man (my wife knows by the way). There appear to be lots of bi men on the internet looking to have sex with other bi men. However, men don't admit openly to being bi (usually not even to their wives). Does anyone have any idea what percentage of men are bi?

I am a masculine married man that loves women but I also love to cross dress in my home. Could u handle it? My wife does because she has fun with it and even loves to do my makeup. She also knows that I am into women sexually so she does not feel like she's married to a bi or gay man. I do take of her in every way but I get kicks out of dressing in sexy lingerie. So again, could you or would you accept and play with your hubby like my wife does with me as a cross dresser?

Do you all realize that 50% of your hubbys have bi tendencies? Many married men want to give oral to ea. other So some of you women have husbands that have bi cravings and some of which have tasted another man. So how do you feel about this knowing that your hubby may have performed on another man? Many married men are oral bi.

If a very masculine married man is bi curious and trys it once, what is he? I was very curious about bi and crossed the line to see what it was like. It was not me, so I will never do it again. Just curious, what would you call someone like me? Have any of you wives have husbands like me (that you know about)? PS: I only gave a bj and let him give me a bj

Whould you be able to handle being married to a Bi man? I am just trying to see if my wife is a freak or normal. I have been honest with her about being bi since we got together. we have been married for almost 3 years now, I was just woundering how other people would handle it? Ok, got a great responce but let me add. I am 100% commited to my wife and do not cheat on her ever. She is my world. and I told her about being Bi on our 1st date, there was never any dishonesty. Why does it seem that everyone asumes that just because a man is bi that he would not be loyal? This blows me away. That would be the same as saying that just because a man like boobs he will cheat with anyone who has bigger boobs than his wife. Granted you could argue that at least they both have boobs, I don't agree. Loyalty is a matter of morality and if you can't trust a person then don't marry them. Just a thought.

Why do Gay or "Bi Sexual" Men "Date", Live With or have sex with straight Women? Why would a Guy who has sex with other Men decieve a Woman by living with her, dating her or even marrying her? God forbid they keep the lie going for years and have children. Why are they doing this? Why would you do it? Does a Woman have to be physically perfect for a Gay/Bi Man to have sex with her? Try to think about all questions.

Why are married men increasingly playing with men (sexually)? Do you think everyone is bisexual to some degree? As per Kinsey , there are very few who are 100% homosexual or 100% heterosexual. Majority of us fall under Bisexual with attractions toward both sexes. Has society accepted bi-sexuality. It seems like it is cool to be bi now.

Bi and married and I want to be with a male? I am Bi and married. My wife knows that I am but I have never been with a man before, but I get a very good feeling when I see a male and I like him and I want to be with a male and try it? Ive told my wife I will never be with a male while I am with her, What should I do?

woman who are married or dating a bi man.do you mind if he..? do woman mind when the man they are with is bi and fools around with other guys. do woman really believe there man when they say they havnt fooled around with another guy,YET. some of you woman are married or are dating a bi man. do you honestly think he'd never cheat on you even if it was just sexual? at least if you was with a totally str8 guy all you need to worry about is if hes gonna cheat cause you aint giving him sex or if ur just getn fat,but now if ur with a bi man you gotta worry about those things and then some and the other man. im not gonna go on about my views on how bimen are really closeted gay,but how do you woman cope with this type of stuff. do you just leave him. do you put up with it cause ur afraid of being alone,maybe you just had a kid together and you dont wonna be alone? or are some of you woman smarter not to get invovled with a biman in the first place. thought please the question is kinda when you are dating,or when a biman tells you etc. do you still think about a long term relationship knowing hes gonna be with men,wot about when ur married and you find out. and for those that say ur monogamous are only fooling urself. if you had the chance to get with a person that fit wot you liket and you had a few drinks im sure it would happen,but maybe some wouldnt trust themselves to be in such a situation in the first place.

I'm Bi Married to a Man -- in Love with a Woman not threesome but i am twosome my life be relationship? I've been married for 15 yrs I wanted to share the latest with someone since my life is still a secret, I meet a wonderful woman now,.I'm soo unhappy & depressed. I want to leave him, but for what,..let alone think about being in love with a woman. I met a woman online and we really connected.We love each other for our hearts and how we make each other feel when we see eachother.who just want to love and love the human beings without it being relationship with share me who want flirt with me ? I want intimate sexually with a woman--relationship, I thought it was a way we could become closer again. My intention was to meet someone, have a sexual relationship with them, then get on with my life,the attraction between those two women was very obvious....sexually as well as spiritually,I thought it was a way we could become closer again. My intention was to meet someone, have a sexual relationship with them, then get on with my life i dont want to threesome but i'm twosome, i am lesbian if you help me i love you bless god love you ,..Gay and Lesbian student in the american Schools sign lanauge and GLBTQ in some american student school,..i can help for some one people a learning american sign lanauge,. I am help very ... conducted by lesbian, gay, and bisexual people ,.I am a gay woman and a school teacher in sign lanauge help people be jobs,.....kentucky the law frankfort and luvisille universty of school law GLBTQ,..why people said don't really know sign language but tried to ...i am understand ,.becuase I believe that people of all ... are a sign of the ... I am teacher of History,but american sign lanauge,.

Has anyone out there ever been married a bi-polar man and and if so then how long and what has it been like?

I am bi. I like women more than men, a lot more. However, I plan on getting married to a man someday.? I am more interested in marriage for companionship rather than for sex. Also, I don't plan on telling my future husband that I am bisexual or that I am more attracted to females because then he probably wouldn't marry me. I really want the best of both worlds. Marriage life and also I want to have a female friend to be intimate with as well without my husband knowing. Do you think this is wrong? I don't think I will be happy with sex within my marriage only but also I won't be happy not being married. What should I do??

Do lesbian women and bi women get turned on when they see a married woman that only likes men? I know men like to get turned on when they see a hot wife and would do anything for a peep show. Are lesbians and bi women the same? I have a very sexy wife and I always wondered if the women flirted with her or where just being friendly but even in women I think there is a border line between that.

Why do most bi women seem to date more men than women? i have noticed this for years. In Hollywood, nearly every bisexual actress is dating or married to a man. Same thing with musicians, writers, what have you. I know there are exceptions to this, but the exceptinos seem to be outnumbered by my simple observation. Throughout my experiences in High School and College, most girls that claim to be bisexual are dating men. I've only seen a bisexual girl relationship last about a month. What do you think?

I am a married man in Cincinnati with strong bi-sexual tendencies. Should I tell my wife about my feelings? I would really like her to know how I feel and perhaps even approve. I also think it would be a turn on to have her watch me with another man.

How many of you married men have cheated honestly? I hate people who lie and pretend their sh*t doesnt stink to seem more acceptable. With the divorce rate as high as it is, how many of you will be willing to admit that you have slept with another woman besides your wife? If you didnt actually commit the act, have you considered it? Is there someone who you've been watching? Be honest. Ladies I know I seem like a mean spirited bi*ch, but I'm here to tell you that these men dont give a sh*t when it comes to pu*sy! They will do whatever they have to do to get it. I dont want to fall in love any more because women always end up with their feelings hurt and left to pick up the pieces. The guys walks away with the other woman and living on. Although he will be paying child support, so that scares some men into sticking around longer in an unhappy marriage. I say to hell with all these scum bags. If they like it, I love it. I'll juice his a** for all he's worth and still walk away with accomplishment.

4 questions rolled into one about women and Bi-sexual men? First, are there any women here who are currently dating and/or married to a bi-sexual man? Second, did you go into the relationship knowing they where bi-sexual? Thirdly, would you allow them to go outside the relationship to meet their bi-sexual needs? And Finally, if the answer is "NO" to all these questions...how can there be such a thing as a bi-sexual man? I know many men who would knowingly have sex with a bi-woman, but I have never met a woman who would knowingly have sex with a bi-sexual man. How do they find a woman? Do they lie and/or not tell about their desire for men, to the women in their lives?

What do women think of bi men? I'm bisexual, but i really want to get married and have kids one day, i mean thats my main goal in life. I'm not camp or effeminate, im just attracted to both men and women. Im a nice guy, im funny and stuff, so girls what do u think? Could u ever marry a bisexual dude?

Any men discover their wife is bi-sexual after they got married? I think I'm okay with it. How did you deal with it ? Can you be friends with both your wife and her lover ?

I am married an bi sexual but i am heavily attracted to women over men.Does this mean that i am gay?.?

married bi friendships? I am in Albuquerque New Mexico and would love to meet another married man who is looking too for a discreet but monogomus type friendship but I don't know how to find a man like that. The dating sites and craigs list etc are all just so much BS looking for just sex. Does anyone have any suggestions in regards to finding someone like I want that actually works? cyclistlady you are awesome! Write me if you want. I'd like that.

Ladies,what would you do if you found out your husband was bi-sexual? Many married men are bi. Whether it be curious,bi,or gay. You just never know these days. My sister was married for 10 years and found out her husband was meeting men on the "down-low" for about 6 of those years. She caught him with a guy at a motel when she followed him and he thinking she was at work

If a Bi woman gets married to a man, does that make her straight? Unless she is planning on cheating on her husband with a woman she should be straight from now on right? married_bi you have a good point

I am a married man but I get excited when I see a large penis when watching porn. What am I? I have never had sex with another male before. However, I get aroused when I a nice big penis. I fantasize about giving men blowjobs after I see porn. I am more into the penis than I am the woman while watching porn. However, I still love sex with my wife and we have it often. How do you label me? Bi curious is it? Also, I wonder how many wives hubbys are just like me? I read that many married men are secretly bi curious as I am. Please advise. Thx To those that label me as weird, sick, and freak, you are labeling 50% of married men who have bi fantasies. Some of you may be labeling your husbands and don't know it.

Hello Need Help BI FEMALE Stuck To A Married Man.? WELL HELLO FIRST OF ALL I WOULD LOVE TO MEET A FEMALE ONLINE FROM AUSTIN TEXAS ANY AGE AND I WOULD LOVE TO BE THERE FRIEND AND LOVER AND I HAVE TOLD MY HUSBAND PLAYING AROUND BUT HE THINKS I'M PLAYING ONLY WHAT DO I DO HE SAID THAT HE WOULD EVEN JUST WATCH ME BUT I WOULD FEEL UNCOMFOTABLE . WELL WHERE CAN I GAT A FRIEND AND MORE AND IS THIS BAD THAT I WANT YO HAVE A FEMALE ALSO WELL LET ME KNOW PLEASE.NO PLAYING AROUND. THANKS

Anyone here married to a bi/gay man? Just wondering if open marriages really work, or if I should seal my fate and leave now.

Tell me something, a woman can be called Bi, but a man is called gay? If a married woman get's involved with another woman, the married woman is called BI, If a married man gets involved with another man, he is gay. I think they are both discusting and gross, why are there two different standards?

married couple looking for men in Montana need help? We are a couple that have tried every thing. yahoo instant message and craigs list but nothing has worked, to find a bi man dose any one have an ide to help in the search dose any one have any idea to help us find a bi-guy. we have tried yahoo and craigslist. And pay sties dont work we need help cause keeping this descreet in montana

How does a married guy deal with bi curiousity? I am married and really enjoy my spouse as a Friend and a lover, but sometime I get curious urges to be Intimate with a man, anyone else feel this way and how do you deal with it?

im a married male but men turn me on as well, does that mean im bi? i havent tried anything yet?

where can I meet bi men in essex? Im looking for a bit of no strings fun near stansted im 42 and married but cant seem to find any men for fun can anyone help.

Gay Men Married to Women: How do they "get it up"? If they are in fact truely gay, how do they get aroused to women? And, no - not bi-sexual men. i am asking about gay men - men like Gov, McGreevy. I'm sorry to say, but this lends ot the arguement that gay is a choice and fuels anti-gay groups. P.S. I'm a gay guy. Tab H - how did you do it? Like, women repulse me. sorry jake - i am 100% gay. not even a little bit, a tiny bit straight. not even an ounce.

Bi married woman/males? Hi is there any married bi woman and bi males on answers. if so do you go separate or do it together as a couple with others. i am bi,and like to kiss,some men don't care for it too much,wonder why.Serious answers please

Was anyone here already married (heterosexual) when they figured out they were gay/bi? I was watching a show the other day on Oprah about married women who realized that they were lesbians. This was after they had married men and had children. Not to sound ignorant but, how did they realize that they were truly a lesbian and not just curious? What was the eyeopener for you that made you say "Yes, I am gay (or bisexual)?"

White Men Married to Black Women...? Would it upset you if your bi-racial daughter wanted to date and/or marry a black man? What about your bi-racial son? Would you encourage him to date black women only? If I were married to a white man, I'd find it extremely offensive if he wanted my child to only date white men or to only date black women. I've always felt that love comes in many forms and that race/color/religion/ethnicity/societal norms/stereotypes should not be a deciding factor(s) when choosing a mate. Research indicates that there are more black men married to white men than the reverse...but the numbers of black women married to white men are up (Census data showed 117,000 black wife-white husband couples in 2006, up from 95,000 in 2000...however, Nearly three quarters of the 403,000 black-white couples in 2006 involved black husbands--http://www.blacknews.com/pr/black_women_dating_white_men101.html).

Is it ok for a married man to be discreetly bi-sexual?